New trekking route surveyed in Mid-Nepal

Pokhara: A survey of a new trekking route that covers 13 village development committees (VDC) of Tanahun, Lamjung and Kaski district and a municipality of Mid-Nepal has been jointly launched by Trekking Agencies’ Association of Nepal (TAAN) Western Regional Association Pokhara and Mirlungkot Tourism Trekking Route ad hoc Committee (MTTRC) recently.

Tourism entrepreneurs, geographers, documentary makers, media persons and local people were involved in the survey team which was assisted by local chambers of commerce and industries, respective VDCs and district development committees (DDC) in a promotion of Nepal Tourism Board.

The surveyed route covers Chundi Ramgha, the birth place of the famous late poet Bhanu Bhakta Acharya of Nepal, Ramghakot, Archale Bhanjyang of Bhanu VDC, Thanimai Temple, Mulabari Bhanjyang of Basantapur VDC, Gahateri, Kotgaun, Sabadi Bhanjyang of Chokchisapani VDC, Bayapani, Ryale, Mirlungkot, Baspani, Thuldhunga of Mirlung VDC.

Similarly this route goes through Tutepani and Pulimarang of Risti VDC, Saathdhare, Jamune, Jitakot of Jita VDC, Tandrang of Taksar VDC, Naagbhairavkot of Suryapal VDC, Samibhanjyang of SamibhanjyangVDC, Bhorletar VDC, Karaputar of Ishaneshwor VDC, Syaklungkot of Hansapur VDC, Chisapani, Bhirchok and Kholako Cheu of Rupakot VDC and Sundaridanda and Begnas Lake of Lekhnath Municipality. According to Mr. Ram Gurung of Syaklungkot, this trekking route overlaps some part of Royal Trek that was walked by Prince Charles of England some 3-decade ago.

Mr. Sushil Bhandari, chairperson of MTTRC said that trekking route which highest point is Mirlungkot which highs 1654 meters from sea level, was surveyed and explored to uplift the living standard of local people with the help of village tourism especially in three districts. Since Chundi Ramgha is the birth place of late poet Bhanu Bhakta, it could be developed and promoted as a destination of literary tourism, said Shreebhakta Acharya, a local social worker.

According to Mr. Narayan Sapkota, general secretary of TAAN Pokhara and coordinator of New Trekking Route Exploring and Promotion Committee (NTREPC), this route could be helpful to local people to welcome their domestic and international tourists if some tourism related infrastructures were developed. TAAN Pokhara executive member and NTREPC joint coordinator Mr. Dipak Raj Adhikari informed that the drinking water is most essential need to bring this trekking route formally on.

According to VDC secretary of Chokchisapani Mr. Ram Raj Neupane, Late poet Bhanu’s birth place, Bhanu Museum, Thanimai Temple of Basantapur VDC, Mirlungkot, Siddha Cave, Baghko Khor (Tiger’s shelter) of Mirlung VDC, Saatdhare (seven water taps) of Jita VDC, Mahadev Temple of Ishaneshor VDC and views of picturesque snowcapped mountains are major attractions of this route. Traditional houses, culture of Brahmin, Gurung, Magar and Tamang people and Ghatu and Sorathi dances are also attractions of this route, said Tara Gurung of same VDC.

According to Mr. Ram Prasad Gurung, social worker of Mirlung VDC Banspani, Local vegetables, Gundruk, beans, Dhindo, popcorns could be tasted in the villages of this trekking route. The welcome and farewell programs of local mothers group are memorable part of the trekking. Social worker Mr. Bhabishwor Gurung of Pulimarang said that mother group members attiring in their traditional clothes, Panchai Baja, five musical instruments, Khijadi and Thado Bhaka are also supportive factors in this trekking route.recentfusion

RELATIONSHIP

Eight kinds of relationships to have before you die... -Pamela Haag, Ph.D. 

There’s a booming genre in wee books of things to see or do “before you die.” I don’t read these books, but Australian hospice nurse Bronnie Ware’s recently-published book, The Top Five Regrets of the Dying, did catch my attention.

Ware found that her patients’ regrets weren’t about things done imperfectly. We forgive the imperfections of our actions—and we regret our inactions. The inept parent, for example, can forgive himself at the end. At least he tried. But the one who never attempted it might feel the sting of regret.

I was most intrigued to hear Ware describe the number one regret as a failure of courage. Her patients wished that they had had the courage to live the life that they wanted to have, whatever it was, and not the one that others had prescribed for them.

I believe that wisdom applies to marriage and relationships. There are couples who are content with the marriage and family life status quo, certainly, but there are others, well-intentioned and married to decent people, who struggle with that status quo and would like to create a different life, if only they could muster the courage to try, to ask a tough question, to make a change, to speak honestly, or to color outside of the lines.

Whatever the case, it occurred to me after listening to Ware that the bucket list that really seems to matter is about relationships more than activities, experiences, things, or travel.
So here’s my list of some human encounters that we should try to have before we die. I bet that any of these relationship experiences would be as sweetly-recalled at life’s end as having seen the pyramids, or that time you tried bungee-jumping in a parking lot.

FIND THE “I’D LOVE TO GO TO THE GARBAGE DUMP WITH YOU” BEST FRIEND. 
This friendship is so effortless and rejuvenating that you’d rather be in the company of that person, even doing the dreariest chore, than almost anywhere else. The wonderful Anne Lamott writes it best:”When you have a friend like this, she can say, ‘Hey, I’ve got to drive up to the dump in Petaluma—wanna come along?’ and you honestly can’t think of anything in the world you’d rather do.”

BE A TORCH CARRIER (BUT NOT A STALKER).
It’s good to experience both being the lover and the beloved at some point in life, both Dante and Beatrice. Often in romantic relationships, the roles are asymmetrical in this way, although we don’t like to admit it. Unequal love in romantic relationships is as much an unseemly, unspoken truth as parental favoritism. But there’s a bittersweet pleasure to clutching an abiding, unrequited passion in your memory. The object of desire remains an ideal, untainted by actual consummation. And there’s a courage, too, although best appreciated retrospectively, in having made an ass out of yourself for love—so long as you can take no for an answer, and quit.  I’ve not been a stranger to my own “make an ass” out of yourself advice, but it’s a small, unavoidable price to pay for agency and self-determination.


AT LEAST ONCE IN YOUR LIFE, HAVE A LOVE AFFAIR WITH YOUR WORK.
Lord knows few of us think of our work as a relationship, to say nothing of a love story, but it can be. It can elicit powerful emotions and profound devotion and joy. In other words, it can be a love affair. I love my work. I love the process of it. I love it even when I fail at it. The work itself satisfies, on its own terms and not instrumentally for any secondary praise, glory or wealth (hah!) that it might bring. It’s such a gift to wake up in the morning and have a big old crush on your job, or your new project.


BE A DEFENDER OF THE WEAK. 
At least once, and hopefully habitually, be the one who stands up for someone weaker in a social group. Don’t be the lemming. In middle school, I was the beneficiary of a more popular, prettier girl who stood up for me, the social weakling. When I had a chance to do the same for her, however, in a different time and place, I didn’t. I was a lemming instead. And 32 years later, I can still feel keenly the shame of having gone along when I should have stood up. I only vaguely remember being the occasional bully victim-but I do remember, and rue, having enabled a bully. That shame sticks.


BE THE “COOL GROWN-UP” 
that someone else ’s child remembers, years, later, as a hazy blur of panache and style. I always wanted to be this, but haven’t been.


HAVE THE PLEASURE OF STAYING UP ALL NIGHT TALKING (TO OTHER PEOPLE, THAT IS). 
These evenings are some of my favorites. My husband and I were very close to one couple some time ago. Our evenings with them would start with dinner and wine, and end when the sun was coming up over Baltimore’s downtown. We’d talked and laughed so much that my sides hurt, and my voice was scratchy that whole next day.


HAVE A CRAZY-MAD LUST-LOVE RELATIONSHIP 
 that involves, say, spending days entirely in a hotel bed and never tiring of each other’s carnality. Keep the blinds down, and drink good wine while you do this, and don’t forget that everyone would be insanely jealous if they knew, so you should keep it to yourself.


BE SOMEONE’S “REALITY-BASED” FRIEND.
You courageously get to say, and do say, all of the unpleasant truths and hard advice. The friend hearing it might loathe you for having said so at first and then, years later, thank you for your candor, which they come to see as a gesture of caring.

MEDICAL HEALTH

My husband is quite fat and though I have started to serve him nutritious food since the past four months, he still feels out of breath any time he climbs stairs or carries heavy loads. We also go for evening walks daily. My brother-in-law recently suffered from a minor heart attack and I am worried my husband will face the same situation. What else can I do to ensure that he eats healthy and has a healthy life?
–Anu Lama

Dear Anu, like most wives, you seem to be pretty conscious about your husband's health. Having a family history of premature heart attack is a major risk factor and your husband should take care of preventable risk factors like blood pressure, cholesterol and sugar levels. I hope he is not smoking!

He should see a dietician and try to reduce weight. It's a good idea to see a physician and have some basic cardiac tests done like ECG, echo and a stress test. If all these tests are normal, he should rule out a chest problem by doing a chest x-ray and a lung test. As per the physician's advice, he should also do adequate exercises.

Remember, gross obesity itself can produce the symptoms which you are describing. So he should try to achieve an optimal weight which is approximately 100 less than height in cm (in kilos). Loosing weight needs a lot of determination and strong family support. Also make him avoid all sweets and fatty food. He should completely avoid alcohol and dinners outside. Serve him homemade healthy soup and salads.


Dr Neil Pande, Dental Surgeon at Healthy Smiles, will answer all your teeth queries.
Send your queries to him at neil@smilenepal.com

Q&A TEETH
with Dr Neil Pande

My 17-year-old grandson often complains about his gums bleeding. He says that though the bleeding is light, it happens about four times a week and often his gums are lightly swollen. He has not visited a dentist yet. What do you think is the problem?–Kapil Basnet


Gingivitis, inflammation of the gums, or Periodontitis, an advanced form may be the problem he is suffering from. The cause of this could be many and need to be ruled out by a dentist one by one. Juvenile Periodontitis could be one such form and could be aggressive in its progression causing lot of bone loss. He must visit the dentist at once and if required, need to be seen by a Periodontist, a gum specialist.



Dr Bharat Rawat, Executive Director and Consultant Cardiologist at the Norvic International Hospital, will answer all your heart queries.
Send your queries to him at drrawat@norvic.wlink.com.np

Q&A HOMOEOPATHY
with Dr Ruchi Saxena Dhakal

I want to get rid of my skin marks and freckles. Does homeopathy have any remedy?
–Minna Manadhar

Some skins are sensitive and every injury heals with a mark. Thus, to treat the marks, overall health of the skin also needs to be treated to prevent recurrence of these marks. There are some good homoeopathic remedies such as Berberis Aquafolia to treat the marks left after pimples. Freckles, on the other hand, are often genetic and often warn one to watch out for occurrence of skin cancers. Wearing a sunscreen should be compulsory when out in the sun. Also wearing a hat or walking under an umbrella can help.

There are some very good remedies, but cannot be prescribed randomly. An overall assessment of the nature of the spots and the health of the skin along with your physical and mental constitution are required to prevent freckles from forming and also treating skin for tendencies towards diseases of sun sensitivity.

MUSICAL CONVERSATION

Music empowers peopleAni Choying Drolma

We know Ani Choying Drolma as the famous singing nun who gave us the beautiful song -Phool Ko Aakha Ma Phool Hai Sansara. Gifted with a voice that stays on with the listener even after the music has stopped, Ani is a role model for the contemporary woman. She emanates a quiet and dignified confidence and is always present to further the cause of peace and empowerment. I meet Ani Choying Drolma for this issue’s Musical Conversation... she made me laugh, she shared her thoughts, her ideas on music in itself a symphony. Some excerpts. 
What is the kind of music you enjoy?
Listening to music should be a comfortable experience. I like music that is smooth and easy to listen to. It should not be too loud. Old Nepali and Hindi songs have music that I enjoy. Of course, I do listen to new singers and their latest songs. I might not listen to them over and over, but just to know what their music is about.
How do you like to listen to music?
I like listening to music at convenience. I find myself listening to music most while I am driving.
What is your opinion on the various genres of music today?
Different people like to listen to different things. I think it has something to do with age too and that probably makes a difference to their choice in music. So it's okay. It's good to have a lot of choices. I have listened to rap too but just to get a taste of what the music is like.
What is the importance of music in your life?I have to say it is one of the most beautiful things I have been blessed with. It has worked as a magic wand in my life, not only to fulfil my own wishes but also to fulfil other people's wishes. So I would say it is one of the best things in my life. Music is something that you can take refuge in any kind of situation, be it when you are sad or happy. And that also makes me think it is the best refuge for somebody who is not very religious or spiritual. Music can accompany you everywhere.
How did you get initiated into singing and to take it up professionally?
Well it is human nature to be interested in music. People like to hum. I never really trained to become a professional. But, as you know, in monasteries when we perform our ritual ceremonies we always have to learn how to perform music. In monasteries when we engage ourselves in spiritual practice, music is a very big part of our ceremony. We might not necessarily sing to have fun but music is important. We use it in a very devotional way. So we use some instruments to perform our chants.

And I think, by nature, I have always been someone who loves music and dancing even though I am a nun. Well, my teachers thought I had potential after they saw me perform during our rituals. Then someone in America thought I had it in me to be a singer and somehow it all came together.
How does it feel to perform in front of so many people? 
The ambience is obviously different and there are a lot of people focused on you. But I never really feel nervous. Once I start to sing I just close my eyes so whether I am alone or with other people it makes no difference to me. During my first concert tour in America I was not nervous, but then I had to learn to be nervous because people kept coming up to me and asking "Ani, are you nervous?" When we are in monasteries and we perform mantras or spiritual songs we are always with hundreds of people. The only difference perhaps is that I am on stage with the musicians playing, not amongst nuns but in front of other people. But then I close my eyes and when I sing my attitude is definitely the same as it is when I am singing in the monastery. So nothing bothered me, but then when I kept hearing "Are you nervous?" I thought maybe I am supposed to be nervous. Then I became a little conscious. But nowadays I don't really think about it. The attitude is not to do the best, or to be the best singer or to sing the best song. I never sing tragic love songs. I sing spiritual songs and it should be based on devotion, deep concentration as you would in meditation. When the sincerity of your attitude is quite clear none of the other emotions matter. I don't really look forward to being the best but I sing with full sincerity and devotion.
Are you inspired by anyone, musical or otherwise?
My teacher, Tulku Urgyen Rinpoche, is my greatest inspiration. Spiritually, musically and in every other way I can think of, I have been very inspired by him. If people find anything good in me and in my music I would credit it to him. There is a Celion Dion song which I think is perfect to express my feelings towards my guru, Tulku Ugyen Rinpoche. It's called "Because You Loved Me".
One song of yours that you really like?
"Ghari Ghari" which I would dedicate to my teacher.

Is there any singer that you really like?
There is not necessarily one artist that I prefer or listen to a lot. It depends on the song actually. I do not have any particular favourite. I listen to a lot of Nhyoo Bajracharya'ssongs. He is my composer so, of course, I enjoy his music. (laughs) Narayan Gopal's songs are wonderful. I like his song "Euta Manche Ko". And I think Norah Jones has a beautiful voice, the way she sings is really beautiful. Other artists I like are Tracy Chapman and Whitney Houston.

How has music empowered you as a person?
It has empowered me in every way. Even during my spiritual meditation practice music has helped me to do it better. And then, it has helped me earn a lot of money and a lot of good will from people. A lot of money means I was able to get a lot of freedom to do whatever I wanted to do, in terms of social work or in terms of fulfilling my personal wishes. It also empowered me by giving me confidence and the courage and the belief that I could do a lot. That I can achieve anything. I use music to strengthen myself and find a way to reach the others with a message. So I am able to use music for my spiritual achievement, to make money, to take care of others. It always gave me the power.

Can music empower people?It can empower anybody. I think it depends on the attitude of the person who uses it. It also depends on your motivation, how you want to use it. People use it for spiritual empowerment, political empowerment, women's empowerment. And I believe music can be the best tool to use. Don't you think your message will sound more beautiful when you sing it instead of shouting and being aggressive? Then you can enjoy it at the same time and feel secure in your motive about what you want.

A song which you would dedicate to a woman.
The most beautiful example of a woman is a mother. I have an album called "Aama" dedicated to all the mothers and I would choose the song "Aama Bhanda".

Any upcoming musical plans?
On 6 April in Patan Museum, Music Nepal is organising a concert for me. After that I will be flying to Taiwan for some concerts. I am also working on a children's album. The idea is to provide songs which children can sing and also songs which mothers can sing to their children. I have noticed that often children sing songs that are really not appropriate for them. They may not know what they are singing but it is just not suitable for them to sing such songs. They should be singing about things like nature, birds, rain, grandpa, chicken and flowers. And mothers should not be singing tragic love songs to their children. In the days past, it seems that mothers used to sing lullabies to their children and I think that tradition is fading away. So keeping that in my mind I thought it would be nice to work on such an album.

How do you choose your songs?
For me it is to do with social responsibility. I have to be able to know that I can contribute something to making this society a better place. So this is my way of contributing as a citizen of the country.

Your most memorable concert?
In 2010 I was high up in the mountains in Manang. That was a concert that was very special to me. From the place to the people to the way they came together and treated me, everything was really beautiful.

A song that reminds you of your childhood.
I have fond memories of dancing to "Makhmali Cholo Chaidaina" and "Mai Chori Sundari".

Would you ever sing a duet with anyone?
Yogeshwor Amayta and I are working towards spreading awareness about organ donation. So just recently I was telling him that perhaps we could sing together and spread the message. Personally, I like the way he sings so maybe we can work together.

MY BEAUTIFUL LIFE

Salonika Singh, Senior Manager at Nepal Bangladesh Bank

In her free time, Salonika likes to spend time with family doing fun things, exploring creativity in cooking new dishes, going out with friends and hitting the spa.


My life is beautiful because…
I am blessed with two kids who are my bundle of joy, a caring husband who is my guardian, very supportive in-laws, a mother who is like a friend and friends who are always there for me.

The most beautiful moment is 
all the moments that I shared with my father. It is the memory of all those moments that gives me the strength to move on.

Ideal vacationI am a beach person, so definitely around the clear blue waters and white sand with my loved ones. As a matter of fact, Australia is always my favorite destination.

Current perfume Coco by Chanel for the day, and Midnight Poison by Dior for the night.

The most beautiful movie I have watched May sound funny but it is ‘Happy Feet’. My taste as far as movies is concerned, has been guided by my kids’ preference for whatever time I can spare for the movies.

I am addicted to…
my children Sarvodaya and Utkrist. 

Workout regime Three times a week, kickboxing, at Rage Fitness Naxal.

Current watch Florence by Rado.

Fashion mantra Dress your age and according to the occasion, be comfortable and confident.

Make upI wear lipsticks by Estee Lauder, Lancôme and Clinique, Studio TECH compact from M.A.C, Mineralize Skin finish natural from M.A.C, eye kohl and eye shadow, from MAC and Lancôme.

Favourite hand-me-down itemThe Montblanc pen that my father always carried with him

Oldest item in my closet 
I guess, it has to be my wedding saree.

Style iconNo one in particular but I make sure to check what’s in for the season by browsing through web sites and checking out celebrities in magazines.

Current phone iphone 4

Always in my handbag 
Hand sanitiser, wallet and some make-up.

The secret behind my glowHappiness and contentment with whatever God has given me.

SkincareFloral Spray Mist by Sisley to keep my skin hydrated and reinforcing serum by L’Oreal works well on my skin.

Latest splurge Diamond solitaire for daily-wear by Shree Bhairav Jewellers.

MENTAL HEALTH Q&A

Q & A Mental health with – Dr Sharad Man Tamrakar

Since the past seven months, I have always been getting negative feelings in my mind. I always worry about my health, and feel like something is going to happen to me and that I am going to die soon. Because of these feelings, my life is totally disturbed. I don't feel like going anywhere or talking to anyone. I often feel dizzy, have headache and sweat heavily at all times. Can you please suggest what's wrong with me? –Ram

You are suffering from Anxiety Disorder, which is one of the most prevalent causes for psychological distress with a life time prevalence rate of 15 percent. All the symptoms you have mentioned are classical phenomenon of the “disease of worry”. If they are free floating throughout the day, then it would be Generalised Anxiety Disorder, and if they come in spurts, suddenly peaking in a matter of seconds to minutes and terminating in complete relief, then it falls into the category of Panic Disorder.

From evolutionary point of view, every living creature is inherently instilled with “Fight-n-Flight” reaction to face or ward off danger. Certain amount of fear and worry is essential to prepare for danger and future, and for human species as a whole this concern drives us to civilisation and technological advancement. It is when this fear and worry becomes overwhelming that it turns into anxiety, compromising one's social, occupational and other significant activities of life. In its clinical form, symptoms are not only limited to mental worry, but are manifested in physical forms like dizziness, palpitation, perspiration, wobbliness, shakiness, trembling, restlessness and ‘tension headaches’.

Cognitively, worry about health and death is present in everybody, but when one is anxious, it occupies the forefront of our thinking and dominates all our activities. A person gets more than ten thousand thoughts in 24 hours, but we merely execute a few hundreds. Which thoughts are executed depends on our mood state. In anxiety one tends to pay more attention to worrying thoughts. And another “thinking error” is that the anxious person tends to believe that whatever catastrophic thoughts comes into the mind, including those in the dreams, will get executed in the real life, which is not possible because time is simply inadequate for all those thousands of thoughts to manifest in reality.

IF I COULD BE A WOMAN FOR A DAY, I WOULD BE.....

If I could be a woman for a day, I would be... In this edition of Male Menu, we asked three men if they could be a woman for a day, who would they choose to be and why... Thoughtful, honest, appreciative and touching, here’s what they had to share.... Mike E LillyFounder president, Sangkalpa Having known and worked with several noted women, including Mother Teresa and Jane Goodall, as well as my own mother who is 89 years old and still in charge, it would be easy to reflect and write about them. I like who I am so I don’t want to change even for an article, but more importantly I don’t need to change. Because, I am so truly fortunate and honoured to be married to such an outstanding woman, my hero, Sushma Maharjan Lilly, that she is my one and only true choice in answering this question.  I don’t need to become her either as we get to share a life together. We mirror each other’s thoughts and beliefs as we strive to do good for all here in Nepal. She has, by her supreme love and understanding, transformed me to becoming a complete person. All my goodness within my heart came out because of our mutual love and her patience. Sush is such a beautiful attractive graceful woman. Her style and manner are sweet and feminine as she kind-heartedly helps those in need. When she enters a room she commands attention as her aura fills the setting with warmth and cheerfulness. Through her health struggles and her dear sweet Mother’s passing, we have learned to rely on one another. I am so inspired by her determination to do good, it has reinvigorated me to excel in all I do. I do actually ask myself, “What would Sushma do?” or “What would Sushma think?” when I have a concern and she is not readily available. So everyday, I witness this awesome, gorgeous, lovely woman and feel uplifted and blessed. I continue to pray and do good works so I can emulate Sushma everyday for the rest of my life. Dr Minendra Rijal  Member, Constituent Assembly If I could be a woman for a day, I would be my daughter, Anita Rijal, who is 22 years of age now. Because, first, I would be young and would get to see the world from the eyes of the following generation and get a better understanding of the aspirations of the youth of today. I would be adequately sensitive to, among other things, issues related to gender and environment, and thus become a better citizen. Second, I would be able to look at myself from the eyes of my children, be a better critic of myself, and thus be a better father. Anil Keshary Shah  Chief executive officer, Mega Bank If I could be a woman for a day, I would choose to be Bhinda Swari Shah, my mother. For her, life’s journey has been epic in every sense, and one from which I have learnt and grown at every step of my own life’s journey. She was born in a Bhaktapur Malla family in which her father Padama Sundar Malla’s caste was taken away for having crossed the seven seas and gone to America for higher education, thus taking the family to India where she did her schooling in St Helen’s, Kurseong. In her final year she took part in a global New York Post essay competition and won, the prize being a trip to the United States. She went to the States and was offered a scholarship to do her Bachelors in Bernard University, in which she excelled and then got a full scholarship in Johns Hopkins to do her Masters. After completing this, she returned to Nepal and took the Public Service Commission exams to enter the Foreign Ministry. She got through and then was posted back to the Nepal Embassy in Washington DC. It was there that she met my father and a journey of unique love started. He, the son of a Thakuri, that to the Raja of Bhirkot and she, a newar Malla of Bhaktapur – their marriage was a very high profile one between two castes in an era when acceptance levels were not very high, yet my grandparents’ support and their love made it all happen. Then there was me and my younger brother Ujjal to add more spice in her life. Being a professional woman dedicated to her career and yet a caring and loving mother, what she did was remarkable in so many levels. To rise in the civil service to become the first Nepali woman to be an Ambassador, while all along being a great life partner to my father and an amazing mother to my brother and me. And even today when at times I feel weakened by the loss of my father and younger brother, I look into her eyes and see the courage that gives me strength to go on. If I could be a woman for a day I would definitely be her, for she taught me everything I know, to make me all I am today by not only making me a good son to her, but a good son to my mother Nepal as well.

Nischal Basnet

Currently doing his bachelor’s in Filmmaking at Oscar International College at Jaya-Bageswori, Nischal Basnet is a young upcoming director. The director of the much awaited and star studded film, ‘Loot’, Nischal is all set to make a mark in the Nepali movie industry. Earlier, Nischal had also made a short film titled “Innocent”.

What would you do in life if money was not a constraint?
I haven’t really thought about that. You need money for everything. I would be doing something big in the entertainment industry.

Is there anyone in the world you love so much that you could give your life for them?
So far there is no one.

If you had 24 hours to live, what would you do?First few hours I would be in deep shock then I would go around doing random things.

Which song best defines your life?There are different phases in my life, so I guess Bryan Adam’s Summer of ‘69 brings back memories of the different phases.

What makes you creative?
Thinking too much.

Your physical feature on which you get complimented a lot?People call me Kaley, so I just take my dark complexion as a compliment. I do not really get many compliments on my physique.

Success is …
Finding pleasure in what I do.

Do you follow your heart or your head?
I follow my heart as head keeps going up and down and the heart is more stable.

If you woke up suddenly and found your house was on fire, which three things would you save as you ran outside?
I would care for nothing else than saving my own life.

What inspired you for your movie “Loot”?It was just news clippings – crime related, in newspapers and on TV.

If you could “loot” one thing what would it be?
I think it would be the hearts of my audiences.

If you had to choose a new name for yourself what would it be?
My granddad called me Nixon so maybe I would change it to that.

One Nepali Actress you would love to take out for dinner?
Reecha Sharma

If you were a product what would be your tag line?
Use me well.

How would you change the world if you were to play God for a day?
I would not change the world but I would change what people think about the world.

Do you have a tattoo? If you could get a tattoo what would it be like?
I don’t, but once I wanted to get a tattoo of Swayambhunath’s eyes on my nape. It is still on my mind.

What is your take on the Nepali Movie industry?
It is getting better but we need more fresh eyes, people need to work for passion rather than money.

Which actor would you love to work with in Nepal’s context?
I would love to work with the same crew of Loot again and again because they have done a wonderful job in this movie.

How many cell phones have you lost?
Probably three or four. One was lost when I got in a fight which I did not start. The other one was when I got a little drunk and the last one when I was abroad.

Bet on a Book This Dasain

Given the dollops of time that one has during the festival, amidst the revelry, gourmet delights and audacious bets – we present you a list of some of the best reads to suit everyone’s palate.

The Blue Mimosa : by Parijat (trans.)
– a contemporary masterpiece bringing the Nepali consciousness to the English speaking world

Perhaps no book in contemporary Nepali literature has received such critical acclaim as Parijat’s Sirishko Phool. Now translated into English by Orchid Books as The Blue Mimosa, the book offers the first introduction of the Nepali consciousness to the English speaking world. No other book succeeds in communicating the nuances of the contemporary Nepali mind as well as this book. A must read for those interested in getting a grip on the Nepali psyche and seeking to ascertain a glimpse of what Nepali society is all about.

Facing My Phantoms:  by Sheeba Shah–a new perspective
The third book by Sheeba is perhaps her best one so far. The book traces the journey of three generations of a family from 1930s Nepal till the present. It captures the dramatic and tumultuous changes that have radically changed Nepal’s political and economic situation. Told from the eyes of Sanjeevani, the book is to be noted for providing a unique perspective towards the conflict years.

Buddha’s Orphan: by Samrat Upadhyay –pre-1990s Kathmandu brought back to life
Samrat’s latest book revolves around pre-1990s Kathmandu and for those of you who were around back then, this book will fill you with nostalgia. For the rest, it will give a glimpse of a city before the urbanization monster gobbled it up. The story is a classic love story that deals with the conservative and traditional in Nepali society clashing with the global culture that the youth in Nepal are embracing. A must read for those interested in the clash of cultures and the changing times.


Unleashing Nepal: by Sujeev Shakya
–it’s the economy, stupid
Amidst the festivities of Nepal, should you at any point question why a country with so much potential and so much resource can be so languid when it comes to development and economic growth, pick up Sujeev Shakya’s Unleashing Nepal. A succinct synopsis of Nepal’s economic history and with an explanation of some of the things that went right and most of the things that went wrong, the book ends with a blistering set of recommendations on what needs to be done and what could happen. A must read for those who want to make a difference.


Seasons of Flight:  by Manjushree Thapa  –a well crafted telling of migration
Seasons of Flight has been called Manjushree’s best book yet. A skillfully crafted work that displays the author’s command of the English language, the book is a must read for all. A clear statement that Nepali writing in English has come to its own, the book marks the emergence of English literature from Nepal as it surpasses the translation of the Nepali condition and enters the domain of expression.  Dealing with a Nepali woman’s migration story to Los Angeles, the book captures the undercurrents of present day Nepali society
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Mortal Engines: by Phillip Reeve–a mind blowing thriller
Widely read and critically acclaimed, Phillip Reeve’s Mortal Engine is a mind blowing adventure through a post-apocalyptic technological mayhem. The first book of a four part series, the world that the author creates is to be admired for its sheer ingenuity and dumb founding accuracy. Just think – gigantic cities on wheels eating each other up! A coming of age story that fits the bracket from teenagers to their fathers, the book should absolutely not be missed by anyone who loves science fiction and adrenaline filled adventures.
 

Crossing Mandlebaum’s Gate : by Kai Bird –world history, politics and memoir
A memoir by Kai Bird, a Nepal resident Pulitzer Prize winner, is a book not to be missed for those interested in world history and politics. Covering 1956 to 1978 of Middle Eastern history, the book is told from the author’s perspective of growing up in Palestine, Saudi Arabia and Egypt. As the son of an American Foreign Service officer, the author had access to a privileged point of view towards the unfolding disaster that we associate with the Middle East. For those unaware of the history of the middle-east, this book will serve to provide an insightful view into the Israel-Palestine conflict and the shaping of the Middle East after the Second World War. With the author featuring regularly in literary events in Kathmandu, make sure you make a list of questions to throw at him the next time he speaks.


The Mahabharata: by Namita Gokhale–getting children back in touch with their myths
The epic comes to life in this retelling of the Mahabharata by Namita Gokhale specifically targeted toward children. With beautifully crafted illustrations by Suddhasattwa Basu, the book is the best way to get children back in touch with their roots and get them to engage with the rich cultural heritage that forms the basis of South Asian civilization and culture. While the Ramayana might be more appropriate for Dasain, an oral retelling to capture the festive spirit might work in conjunction with this visually appealing narrative. Matchless in its content and presentation, the book will be cherished by readers of all ages.

Bone: by Jeff Smith –art and storytelling combine the battle of good vs evil
For those of you into graphic novels, Bone by Jeff Smith is a must read. An adventure story based upon the classic battle of good and evil, the illustrations and storyline are not to be missed by any art lover. A book for all ages, don’t be surprised if you share the enjoyment of reading the book with teenagers to grumpy old men.

The Gathering : by Anne Enright–the family as the centre of the universe
The 2007 Man Booker prize winner will not disappoint those who want to explore the deeper nature of family relations and their ways of dealing with death. Well-crafted and deeply moving, the book tells the story of the narrator’s search for meaning and her attempts to understand her family after her brother commits suicide. Set around an Irish family, the family bonds and relations that grip them will resonate powerfully with our closely knit Nepali families as well.


Tibet, Tibet: by Patrick French–a history of Tibet eloquently told
Patrick French is best known for being the biographer of Nobel Prize winning author, V. S. Naipaul. In this book, written before he wrote the biography, he charts his own personal experience with Tibet – not as the exotic land it is so often portrayed but as the realpolitick semi-autonomous region under Chinese rule. A brilliant read for those interested in the general region and wish to gain a fun filled, insightful read into the complexity between Tibet and China relations.

Haku Kale is immortal

Haku Kale is immortal. In the future, whenever Nepali actors will sign up for the role of a Newar guy, who shares even the slightest resemblance with the idiosyncrasies of Haku, will refer to this Saugat Malla’s role. They will try to excel him but will fail badly every time. They are not to be blamed, the man did pretty good job there. Or it was easy for Saugat since he had no one to outdo. One cannot reckon the influences he as an actor had in imbibing the role, or even if there were, he was good hiding it. Haku doesn’t remind anyone of any other actor’s character portrayal but of all those Newar bhatti owners who speak with a heavy Newari accent. He breathed life into the kinds he portrayed.

Loot has done what Darpanchaaya once did- made Nepalis who don’t watch Nepali movies go and watch a Nepali movie. The movie critics and reviewers had then stamped Darpanchaaya as a new form of popular culture- a collective action was enforced upon people- we were united by the common cinema watching experience. We were then induced by mass hallucination and once more the country is facing the same.
Let’s take this moment to congratulate Nishcal Basnet on his first directorial debut. The movie has catapulted him in the list of ‘great directors’ list. We don’t have many but he sure is one of the few. The duo has written history. And also Dayahang Rai as Gople is the cherry in the cake.

The hegemony created by thoughtless, bogus movies and skill-less acting methods has been crushed down. Now we can all sleep well. The better days of Nepali cinema has arrived. Fear should be embraced when Saugat realizes the humongous contribution he has made. It is another matter that the actor who immortalized the role hasn’t realized the impact the movie and his role has made yet but movie goers are indebted to him for life. It hasn’t transpired onto Saugat what he has given to the Nepali film industry and to the whining and hopeless audiences. He will be a conceited being then. It is better he doesn’t think highly of himself; not at least for time being as he has to deliver great many roles. He has to outdo himself every time.

Saugat Malla is famed for his method acting. Until and unless he gets it right, he doesn’t rest. He gets into the skin of the character and becomes the character. It is not Saugat that we see on the screen when watching Loot but Haku Kale, the character. Saugat is Gurukul’s poster boy- many aspiring people with hopeful eyes will enroll in theatre schools because Saugat was once like them. He reinforces the belief that acting is a serious job and that not everyone can do it but with a little bit of learning, greater dose of dedication and passion, anyone can score.

But Saugat has committed a crime. He has sown hopes in people. He has asked people to have belief- in him and Nepali films. Somebody should tell Saugat of his responsibility upon the audiences. The urban audiences who ruthlessly critic Hollywood movies and actors were also the same who lined up in queues to buy tickets to watch Loot and they will not spare Saugat next time if he fails them. Now, every time Saugat has to match up to their expectation. He cannot put across excuses because they will be treated as pretexts- pretexts to cover up his incompetence and the last thing Saugat is is an incompetent actor.

We become the characters

We become the characters- that is what happens. When we read a novel, the psyche of the characters overlaps with ours and we cannot distinguish if it is us who is thinking the thoughts or the character. And if the writer has adopted descriptive narrative methodology, then every detail is etched on your mind and you start seeing things as described in the novel. You see the park which was never there, the building where the protagonist works automatically pops up on the way, and you see and hear things and cannot comprehend what they mean because it is not real. The line between reality and fantasy gets blur- that is, the opportunity is bestowed upon those who are true readers. Eerie it may sound but that is what happens-not being able to comprehend what is happening because the ‘unreal’ becomes more ‘real’. Your thought is hacked by the plot. They linger on. In some sick, twisted way, you become the character- it is like you are governed by them. The line between the reader and the character fades away. You dwell on the story so much that your reality becomes obsolete- and simulacra and simulacrum come into play.

We mourn with our characters at their loss, we rejoice at their happy endings, we feel tickled when they steal a kiss, we feel embraced with warmth at their gain- we feel part of them- we are involved in the storytelling, we don’t just remain passive reader but active participants. Or else we won’t be laughing, crying like crazy with a book in our hand. We find ourselves transported into their lives. Or is it them who visit us in our ‘real’ world? By reading the story, we make them come alive and they visit us from the other world into our realm. Eons old or post-modern literature- the characters don’t feel out of place when they are ‘real’ in the imagination of the readers. If we could see the characters, the scene would be something like this: Othello is running wild and stumbles upon Emma who is lost in her thought and there is Jay Gatsby riding on his horse who stops by to chat with Rob from High Fidelity. And these characters are all there hovering around us out of the novels.

Imagination gets wings through reading. You use our thinking gear on and the characters get shape, the surrounding gets materialized and the scene is in front of your eyes. Sure, the author has done his job describing the facts well, but it is the reader engrossed in the book who adds colors. When the office environment is mentioned, the lay-out is already there in our mind, we are even quick at imagining the color of their car, the ambience at a party- everything is in our head.

Well, the obsession subsides eventually but during the time when the effect is still on- the characters get stuck with you- they walk, laugh, breath, eat with you. Even if you are making love, they are there with you. “Be on the top- I would have if I were you”- echoes the character over your head. You cannot concentrate and the love making is interfered by the presence of the third party. Sure, threesome is not possible because the third one is in your head. Or for instance you are about to let go off things, the willful character you adore shouts at you “I never thought you would be this meek and hopeless” and surprisingly, you do get up and walk that extra mile- even if to shut up the voice. The characters teach us to be strong- to cultivate our thoughts, to bring up our children in a better way, to see, to think, to observe, to achieve more, to be more than what we are, and to live life.

Anywhere you go, whatever age the readers be, and whichever gender the readers belong to; we can distinguish them into two major groups. One group which just flips through the pages; they read just to kill time. They skim through the pages and jump from the first page to the last. They are not interested in the process; rather the end. And they read to be seen reading. They want the observers to define them as ‘thinkers’. The first kinds are pseudo-intellectuals. Whereas the other kinds are voracious readers. They read to know, to learn, to understand. In an attempt to understand the characters, they end up understanding a part of themselves. They don’t just see the plot in black and white but unravel the hidden meanings of life. They interpret, they think and they question.

As a reader you are never left alone. You are constantly haunted by the most proverbial stereotype habits of the characters- the way they quince their nose when smiling, that smirk whenever they win the game or the way they tilt their head and we find ourselves adopting the same idiosyncrasies. We start acting, deciding the way the character would if encountered with the similar situation.

You wish your partner would kiss as passionately as the characters in the novel, you day dream and at times, the result is the night fall. If everything is at the disposal of the character then you regret your blue-collar job, you wish you were living their lavish lifestyle- you were a billionaire like the character, would be flaunting Chanel as frequently as mentioned in the novel, that you would be driving Porsche, the Chloe dress would fit you magically and you look gorgeous all the time and that you never had a bad hair day, the love of your life would sweep you off your feet by his loving acts, you wish life was good, you would leave for Paris just like that- unannounced and that too on a private jet, you wish life was something else other than what you are living.

If a novel on Sherlock Holmes is the one lying next to your bed, then you start to see things through the eyes of a detective, you sense everything fishy, you suspect, you doubt and you think that you can solve the problem-however imaginary it be. When one of my colleagues (let’s call her X) was reading Madam Bovary, she thought that she could go away with infidelity. She wanted to keep lovers; she wanted to experience things and experiment. D.H. Lawrence’s ‘Women in Love’ had a similar effect. Also my nephew who is a big time Harry Potter fan, thinks that magical world exists and he wants to enroll in the Hogwarts when he grows older.
Howard Roark in Fountainhead, Santiago in the Old Man and the Sea, Toru Watanabe in Norwegian Wood- these characters fascinate us. We tend to imbibe their characteristics. We idolize the characters. They become part of our growing phase, part of our daily life and part of who we become. You know that these are mere books but you realize that evil exists but more than that it is love and goodness and hope that will prevail for always.

Books play with our thought process and play a major role dictating the state of our mind- if not for always-at least during the time of the reading. But reality meets you round the corner but meanwhile, you can day dream. 

The third flagship of the Karuna Natural Wears has opened at Durbar Marg- the earlier two being at Pulchowk and Lazimpat. Majority of the shoppers assumes to find the new store near Sherpa Mall, its earlier location; but it is actually on the lane of KFC before you reach Bentley.

Because the store space is not humongous, the owners have made smart usage of the available space; thus saving more room for the customers to browse around. The objective is not disturbed and the spotlight is on the merchandise. The attention grabbing elements in fact are the items on display. The hemp, bamboo, allo and linen garments beautifully arranged on the brilliantly crafted hangers and those that boastfully lie on the racks steal the show. Karuna has introduced its summer line and for those who want to enjoy the sunshine but don’t want to get cooked up, the summer-friendly skirts, trousers, tank tops, shirts, blouses all designed by local designers can be a better option. Men and women shoppers can rest their search at Karuna if what they are looking for is fashionable organic products. Their cool t-shirts with artistic graphic designs are another major attraction. And a visit to the jewelry cabinets is recommended. Their oh-so-cool earrings will catch an admirer’s attention and you don’t want to part with the new designs of rings.

The Magical Realm called IPL

“Korbo lorbo jeetbo re,” the anthem of Kolkota Knight Riders for once has been actualized despite people abhorring the camera happy, free air kisses and salute guy Sahrukh Khan, the owner of the side. This 5th edition, nine teams competed and 76 matches were held over 54 days where Kolkota beat the two time champion Chennai in the final. The IPL was bigger and better than before with players of all caliber, origin, nationality and intensity facing up against each other.

It’s amazing what money can do to a sport. There were teams so strong that they would beat any international side let alone clubs of the world thanks to generous owners and their bank accounts. The bigger franchises like Mumbai Indians, Kolkata Knight Riders, Deccan Chargers simply bought the hottest players like Sachin Tendulkar, Mahendra Singh Dhoni, around with whatever was required while the smaller ones had to settle with developing the lesser ones.

Even the auctions attract plenty of attention as teams play tug of war to get the best. It sometimes defies logic though when we see players like Muttiah Murilitharan sold for lot less than somebody like Ravindra Jadeja. Maybe they go to the astrologers first and then to the auction house. Jadeja, Vinay Kumar and Mahela Jayawardane were the highest bids crossing the million dollar mark. The day may not be far, heaven forbid, when players forsake their national side for the lucrative IPL.

Indian Premiere League is a melting pot for players, businessmen, media and fans from all over the world. The cheer ladies, the DJ’s, the drummers were all embodied by the tournament. There was a sense of celebration all around India. People applauded and shouted at the top of their voice in every game, every innings and every ball. Such was the intensity that even here the talk in the mornings and evenings at every tea shop always included the IPL and the immense talent and guile of the players. Even the grass in the stadiums was kept lush and green to give that freshness and life to the players and spectators alike.

The setting couldn’t have been any better. The country with its vastness and people following their sides in huge numbers made it grander. People just filled the stadiums in every game which helped fuel the hype, the media coverage and of course the collection of funds. This most certainly would not have been possible anywhere else in the world. People honked the pipes, mobbed the players, booed and then put their hands together for good cricket.

The competition was a hard contested one as well. Some leading the chart all the way and some picking pace at the end. Every ball was an event, everything was possible and nothing was safe. Batsmen threatened to hit every ball for a six and the bowlers threatened to bowl a Yorker every ball. The margin for error was miniscule while anticipation and experimentation was of the essence. The fielders skid, dived, relayed and threw themselves in every manner to save the boundaries. All this enthusiasm to proved their worth and see their team win and better their worth the next year.

Gautam Gambhir and Sunil Narine were the stand out players for KKR as well as the second highest run getter and second highest wicket taker in the IPL respectively. Gambhir’s controlled aggression and Narines accuracy mixed with some mystery deliveries made in roads for Kolkota throughout. They played as a unit all the way and it was a little known Bisla who played the innings of his life to bring them the victory in the final.

IPL 5 had numerous breathtaking moments, more so this time than the last 4 editions put together. Chris Gayle of Royal Challengers Bangalore cannoned sixes every time he went to the crease and made it look like child’s play. One of the best if not the best innings came from the charismatic MS Dhoni himself in the semifinal where he played a cameo that included the amazing “helicopter” shot to propel his side towards the final. Albie Morkel and Dale Steyn displayed why true fast bowlers can change the course of the game in any format.

The best thing to happen this IPL season for us Nepalis was that our long time national player Shakti Gauchan was summoned for a trial by Rajesthan Roayals which sadly did not materialized but yet has given a glimmer of hope of a prospect in the future that a brilliant young man might be playing for a club in IPL makes our diaphragm go wiggley which further reiterates the popularity and global presence of the Indian Premiere League and of course the wealth they are willing to splash out. The fact that it is bite sized and action packed; keeps people hooked and may be the future of cricket but It does endanger the fen ace and calmness of this gentlemen’s game.

Using Vibrational Acoustics to Mimic Perception of A Larger Space

Many species have a built-in sonar system; dolphins, bats, and several other species that we know about. Some humans can use clicking sounds to estimate the distance from trees even in a dense and dark forest, this has been documented in various indigenous Indian tribes. Is my contention that the reason this works for humans as well is the shape of the human ear as it traps and collects the reverberations of vibrational sound, as it is a highly evolved shape for vibrational acoustics. Okay so let's talk about this for second, as I have a few ideas I'd like to run by you.

Is it possible to use vibrational acoustics, and the purposeful intersection of rogue waves to mimic the perception of a larger space? Why might we wish to do this you ask? Well, what if you are on a submarine and you start to get a little claustrophobic? What if you are involved in long-term space travel, a space colony, or you are forced to live in a small area for a long period of time? How about when we put people in prison and we pack them into smaller cells, and they start to have psychological problems which exacerbate their already challenged personality behavioral traits?

How about dorm rooms and apartments? What if you have a restaurant which takes a lot of energy to run the air conditioner, and you want people to feel like it's more spacious? If you put in some mirrors, and have the acoustic set correctly, not only would it visually appear to be a bigger space, but it would also feel right, and much larger. Indeed, after coming up with this concept the other day, I think I've come to the conclusion that it is possible, and therefore we need to study this and do some research. Why you ask? For the same reasons I mentioned above and all the potential applications.

Further, if it works for humans it could work for zoo animals, and it might prevent people living in high density areas from going crazy or exhibiting violent behavior. If you got the acoustics right it would also help the retail sector as more people would shop and those retail spaces could be smaller, making the return on investment better for those who own the buildings and the retailers who have to pay for that floor space each month with their rent. It makes sense, even for the future compact cars which are smaller to get better fuel mileage. Therefore, I hope you will please consider all this and think on it.

Lance Winslow has launched a new provocative series of eBooks on Future Concepts. Lance Winslow is a retired Founder of a Nationwide Franchise Chain, and now runs the Online Think Tank; http://www.worldthinktank.net

Essential Things To Consider Before Installing The Office Cubicles

To keep up with the demands of modernization, corporate offices are trying their bit to refurbish and modify their office spaces with the functional and attractive furniture pieces. Installing office cubicles have become the most recent and popular trend in modern office settings. These attractive office furniture are highly functional and aptly suit the needs of the modern offices.

Cubicle set-ups are used by the office facilities for optimizing the workplaces in the most appropriate manner. The concept of office cubicles came to existence in the year 1964 and of late, the cubicle set up is widely reckoned by most of the corporate firms. However, there are certain things which you need to consider before getting the cubicles installed in your office facility and in this article, we shall discuss some of those aspects.

1. While you choose to buy the cubicles for your office, there is something more to consider other than the business budget. It is imperative to plan and consider the space of the office so as to make the best use of the work area. It is also necessary to consider the office floors wherein the cubicles will be placed and to evaluate the effect to which these cubicles would be used.

2. It is essential to create a proper lay-out before installing the cubicles in your office in regard to the strength of the employees working. If there are any doubts, hire a professional architect to get the job done and utilize the potential space in your facility without messing up with the furniture. Even, some cubicle installation companies can assist you in creating a layout.

3. Once you are sure of the arrangement of the cubicles, consider the charge installation cost per area. There are many companies that offer specialized services and their service varies. Thus, it will be wise to gather as many as price quotes as possible, evaluate the difference in price and choose one that seems to offer the best value for money.

4. The next important thing will be considering the size of the cubicles. A majestic cubicle is not all that you would want in your office since oversized structures consume excessive space for nothing and will look cluttered as well. It is thus wise to opt for installing a stylish cubicle that can accommodate the desk, chair, computers, printers and features storage unit.

An office is often judged by its appearance and cubicle set-up in the offices has been one of the elementary structures that tend to harness the professional spirit and perk up the entire look and feel of the office floor. The cubicles also help manage the workspace in a better manner and optimize the space to foster productivity.

Solon Zones is a renowned interior designer who works in a company that offers comprehensive solution to office furniture needs. His company also offers value added services such as installation of Cubicles Orange County offices, space planning and management.

Important Questions To Discuss With Your Architect

Designing a dream home quickly becomes a project with a lot of different people involved. Builders, architects, trade staff and bank managers all have a hand in how smoothly a build goes and the final result. From the design to the carpet laying, everyone that works on your home is going to have an effect. It's important that you choose who you work with carefully from the initial stages of planning to the finishing touches.

Choosing an architect is the most important part of the building process and something that requires proper research and a lot of effort on your part. Responsible for turning your wants and desires into a reality, there's no-one more involved in the build than your architect. Take the time to select somebody who can design in the style you're after, communicates well with you and understands the direction you want to take your build. Make sure you ask some of these questions during the selection process to give you a better idea of who to pick.

What similar projects can you show me?

You might find someone who has worked on some major and impressive projects before, but experience in providing architectural design services for builds similar to your own is what you should primarily be looking for. Not everybody that can design a commercial building is going to be able create the plan for a comfortable and beautiful home. Take a look at previous projects that they've worked on and decide whether or not they're similar in style to what you're looking for.

What services do you offer in the way of project management?

Some architects will be with you every step of the way during a project while others choose to only design the plans for a home. Having an experienced project manager to work with contractors and deal with the inevitable issues and conflicts that arise with a build can make the process a lot easier for you and lead to better results.

What distinguishes you from other architects?

This question is likely to give you some insight into what the architect thinks they can bring to your project. They're likely to talk about their specific skills and specialties as well as the previous experience they feel that they can draw from. The answer to this question is quite important as you want to work with somebody confident in his or her abilities.

With the right team behind you, you should be able to sidestep many of the issues that commonly plague building projects. Finding a good architect who shares your vision is just the first stage in seeing your dream come to life.